THE BABY YOU WANT
Did you watch the official Program Tour video up above?
Well, get back up there and press that play button! There’s even captions if you’re watching from the bathroom stall at work. Go ahead … I’ll just read a magazine or something and wait until you’re done.
Cool! The rest of this page will give you more info and cover some FAQs you might be wondering about. Look around and make yourself at home. I’d offer a cup of tea if I could.
Here's what you'll get.
10 Video Lessons
9 Video Lessons
9 Video Lessons
9 Video Lessons
BONUS A LA CARTE
PRINTABLE MANTRA CARDS
YOUR VERY OWN TRIBE
VIRTUAL Q&A with NICOLE
Worried it's too big? Read more +
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TO SEE IF TBYW IS A GOOD FIT FOR YOU.
Feeling out of control and not knowing are super hard for me | Y / N
I feel like I’m chasing fertility fixes that don’t ever deliver | Y / N
I’m facing big next steps and I’m worried about making the right choice | Y / N
I feel like I’m a fertility martyr - no caffeine, alcohol, sugar the list goes on | Y / N
I wish I could understand my clinic and body better | Y / N
I’ve been ignoring other concerns because I don’t have the energy right now | Y / N
I feel like I’m always overthinking, obsessing, anxious and overwhelmed | Y / N
I’m doing so much and infertility feels so unfair | Y / N
I’m a perfectionist, I do everything myself, and I'm lousy at relaxing | Y / N
My partner and I aren't on the same page | Y / N
I’m sick of hurtful comments and awkward silence and want real conversation | Y / N
Celebrations and social media feel like a field of landmines | Y / N
I crave better boundaries and wish I could say no without guilt | Y / N
I worry that even my fertility friends will leave me behind | Y / N
I’m sick of feeling beat down and want to live and love my life | Y / N
If you said yes you’re in the right place! The Baby You Want covers everything here and so much more, all in a way that's true to what feels appealing and totally doable to you.
Module 1 | FOUNDATION
This module covers the key reframes and big paradigm shifts that will help you stop focussing exclusively on your fertility at the expense of the rest of your body and life and start to connect those dots. You’ll discover, scientifically, why being more holistic is where optimal fertility happens, see what’s statistically at stake (hint -- it’s so much more than just getting pregnant), learn how to navigate hard decisions in a way that honors what you really value, and trade day-to-day overwhelm for living in a place that makes you feel awesome. In other words, this is the place you’ll learn everything you need to build a rock solid new foundation for all that comes next.
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Module 2 | NURSERY
Let’s get you familiar with the nuts and bolts of reproductive and menstrual science! You need to learn how to listen to your own unique body, understand what’s normal and what’s worrisome, and truly get to the root of any issues you may discover. This module will also help you gauge a clinic’s skill and lab quality, better understand fertility statistics and your unique odds, ask for more specific tests and treatments, and all-around better understand, advocate and engage in your reproductive care.
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Module 3 | HOUSE
In this module we’ll get the rest of your body and mind more abundant and fertile too. You’ll explore genetics, diet and digestion, sleep, respiratory health, exercise, stress coping skills, mental health, grief and more -- all with moderation and sustainability in mind. No more pimping out the Nursery (just your reproductive health) while the rest of the house is in shambles. Your body is wise and wants ALL of you to be doing (reasonably) well before it takes the leap to get pregnant! Let’s move towards that, instead of away, in this module.
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Module 4 | NEIGHBORHOOD
Relationship strains, resentment, hurtful comments, silent treatments, work-life-balance, boundaries, healthy communication, real connection, support, and more. (I had to hold back from putting exclamation points after every one of these.) Working on these concerns are every bit as helpful for your fertility as taking a supplement. Okay, that’s not true. These things are actually waaaay more helpful! Think of the fight or flight you’ll avoid. Life is waaaaay better when these things are better.
Bonus Module 5 | A LA CARTE
Think of it as the rustic tool shed out back. You might need some specific time-sensitive tools that help you cope with the emotions of a positive pregnancy test or how to work on a thin lining during an IVF cycle. Or you might want more in-depth education on a specific situation like how to get to the root of PCOS or reoccurring pregnancy loss. Videos like these are not for everyone, but are great for some and are all in this more casual, ever-expanding module. Don't worry, I'll always let you kow when something new arrives.
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Private Forum | TBYW COMMUNITY
The power of finding your fertility tribe cannot be overstated and TBYW Community is a great place to find your tribe. Included with your enrollment is a fantastic private forum where you’ll have a chance to talk about what you’re learning, exchange ideas and inspirations, and create bonds with like-minded fertility friends. There’s even a specific discussion topic for staying in touch with others and maintaining support in pregnancy and beyond.
"Little by little becomes a lot."
| Anonymous |
How is TBYW different than other fertility programs?
Do you guarantee I’ll have a baby if I complete the program?
I’m already overwhelmed. Will this program add to that?
Is this program for all types of infertility?
Is there anyone who should NOT take this program?
I’m in the middle of an IVF. Is it too late to join?
I’m just starting to try for a baby. Is it too soon to join?
How much does lifetime enrollment cost and how do I get a scholarship if I need one?
Will I get one-on-one fertility support or suggestions from Nicole?
Is this a bunch of touchy-feely-woo-woo stuff?
Can my partner do the program too?
Is TBYW a substitution for other medical care?
What level of tech skill and equipment do I need?
Do I have to live in the US to do the program?
How do I contact you if I have an issue?
Is there a The Baby You Want support group?
Will I need to buy supplements or add-ons?
Are there subtitles or transcripts available?
What types of payments do you accept?
Since Nicole is an acupuncturist should I be getting acupuncture?
My kind of testimonials.
A (quick) note from me.
You know that image of the person holding her hands in the shape of a heart over her gloriously pregnant tummy and those fertility websites with all the baby pictures? Blech. Not a fan.
These sorts of marketing tactics prey on vulnerability and desperation. It’s another example of crappy fertility culture. So, in lieu of looking at or reading about other people’s babies, I invite you to consider three things.
Fertility care doesn't happen in a vacuum. Yes, my statistics beat any study. But any statistics I could possibly share would never by my statistics -- they would be ours.
No clinic, program, or provider will ever have 100% success rates. When we exclusively focus on pregnancy outcomes alone it gives those who don't "succeed" the message they have failed. Nothing could be further from the truth.
I believe the best chance at a baby comes from you having a healthy and abundant life, and getting top notch care based on your unique needs. That’s where I focus. And that’s where I want you to increasingly focus too.
This is about your story. Not anyone else's.
If you join this community I know you'll be happy you did. You will be more resilient and ready for wherever your journey takes you. That’s a sales pitch I can get behind, and I sincerely hope you'll take the leap.
"Warmth and empathy ... real and authentic. Nicole had an immeasurable impact on my journey through infertility."
- K B
"It just feels so far from what we ever thought possible, and yet, here we are."
- Jen F
"I felt like I wasn't all alone anymore. I felt grounded yet lighter at the same time. I can't say enough good things about my experience."
- Krista K
THERE'S ONLY THIS MOMENT.
If you’ve made it through all this info then you are here for a reason my friend! Something here is speaking to you -- honor that. And good news! Because we're launching during this extra intense and vulnerable time, and because we want this program to grow super organically (please tell a friend), we’re offering special "get-to-it" pricing through June of 2021. The current one-time enrollment cost is $299.
Make this the moment you choose abundance. The Baby You Want is waiting for you!